Years ago, before man walked on the moon, before a civil war threatened to divide our country, before Columbus discovered a New World, there was a man who spoke for God. His name means “help” or “helper,” but we simply call him Ezra. He lived during the fifth century B.C. and spoke to the people of Judah, who had returned from exile. His goal was to restore the community. Tradition tells us he wrote First and Second Chronicles in the Old Testament.
Our scripture reading is 1 Chronicles 4:9-10. It is a short prayer hidden in the genealogical text of Judah. The one who uttered that prayer was Jabez, who was an ancestor of the kings of Judah. Jabez means “he makes sorrowful,” because his mother had a hard time at his birth. Yet, his name did not define him. He grew up to be a doctor of the law, who was known for his noble character. In his prayer he asks for the desires of his heart. He asks for God’s protection, and asks for God to increase his wealth. Jabez is praying for himself. God answers his prayer with yes. Perhaps that is why so many are interested in his prayer. We believe in prayer, and we would like God to smile on our requests.
Did you know, according to the City Square Research Group, 85% of Americans say they use some kind of spiritual practice to connect to a higher power?
Did you know 61% of that group pray?
Did you know 50% of prayers pray when they are awakened in the morning?
Did you know 55% of prayers pray at bedtime?
Did you know 61% of prayers pray in their car?
Did you know 46% of prayers pray in their place of worship?
Did you know 87% of prayers believe they have received an answer to their prayers in the past twelve months?
Do you know of anyone who doesn’t believe in prayer?
In 2000, Multnomah Books released a book call The Prayer of Jabez. It was written by David Wilkerson (1931-2011). I remember the uproar over the book. It sold more than nine million copies. The book was popular because many believe in prayer, and everyone wants God to grant them their requests. However, Jabez’s prayer does not hold a secret formula on how to prosper, but it does raise two questions. I want to look at those two questions in this blog. These questions and thoughts are not original. They came from Thomas Tewell (born 1949) of the United Presbyterian Church. This is question number one.
Should you pray for the desires of your heart? Peter the Great (1672-1725) led Russia out of isolation. He introduced the Russian people to Europe. He grew to be a rich and powerful man. In his court there was a philosopher of outstanding ability who had little money, and he asked Peter for financial help. He was told to draw whatever he needed from the imperial treasury. But when the man requested an amount equal to $50,000, he was refused – the treasurer needing to verify that such a large sum was authorized. When he asked Peter, the ruler replied, “Pay the money at once. The philosopher has done me a singular honor. By the largeness of his request, he shows that he has understood both my wealth and generosity.”
The prayer of Jabez says, “Oh, that you would bless me and enlarge my territory! Let your hand be with me and keep me from harm so that I may be free from pain.” Jabez’s prayer illustrates for us that we should be honest with God. Those were the things he wanted. Those were the greatest dreams of his life. What is your greatest dream in your life? You have the license to share your dreams with God; He wants us to be honest with him. You need to believe in a great big God, who is generous with his blessings. Jabez asked for protection and riches, and he received it. What are the desires of your heart? The answer to every prayer is no until it is asked. Feel free to ask God for the desires of your heart. This is question number two.
What is answered prayer? I will always remember Jean as a big-hearted person. She was a friend of my sister’s. When we were young, she was always at our house. At some level, she was family. As an adult she became a foster parent to children who needed love. She taught home economics in the Youngstown City Schools in Ohio and had a passion for her students. Jean deserved better, but one day the test results came back, and she had cancer. She asked everyone to pray for her and we did. We prayed for her, until the day she died. Even though Jean wasn’t my friend, I felt the loss. On the day she was buried some say God didn’t answer our prayers. They were wrong. Just think about it for a moment.
Many experienced God through Jean’s illness. Her death changed us. We discovered what was important in life. Because of those prayers we rekindled childhood friendships. Because of those prayers she experienced the power of the church. Jean was not a church going person, but the church reached out to her. Because of those prayers, we learned to appreciate every healthy day of our lives. Because of those prayers, we learned to appreciate the people in our lives. Because of those prayers we experienced God.
Answered prayer is not getting what you want. Sometimes God answers our prayers with a “yes.” Sometimes God answers our prayers with a “no.” Sometimes God answers our prayers with a “later” and sometimes with an “are you crazy?” Never forget, prayer is cultivating a friendship with God. Answered prayer is being aligned with God’s will. The great missionary E. Stanley Jones (1884-1973) once said, “Prayer is surrender –surrender to the will of God and cooperation with that will.” Our prayers are answered when we experience God.
Sir George Adam Smith (1856-1942) was a Scottish theologian. He told a story of how he and his guide were climbing the Weisshorn in the Swiss Alps. It was stormy and they were making their climb on the sheltered side of the peak. When they reached the summit, they were filled with exhilaration. Sir George forgot about the fierce winds. He leaped up and was nearly blown over the edge to the glacier below! The guide grabbed hold of him and exclaimed: “On your knees, sir. You are safe here only on your knees!” The same is true of life. We are only safe when we are on our knees. Alfred Lloyd Tennyson (1809-892) said, “Nearer than hands and feet, even than breath, that is how near God is to us when we pray.”
Russ Adams 