In the Name of Jesus

Our scripture reading is Acts 16:16-18. Paul is on his second missionary journey, accompanied by Silas and Timothy. They are looking for a place to pray. That is not as simple as it sounds. A female fortune teller, who has made her master a great deal of money, had been stocking them for several days, causing an uproar at every opportunity. At that time, fortune-telling was seen as Satanic. Still today, there is a dark side of fortune-telling that can’t be ignored. Paul’s patience with her grew thin. Without warning, Paul looked at the woman and called on the name of Jesus. Immediately, the demon was exorcised from her, and her “gift” was gone. Calling on the name of Jesus reveals God’s authority. Have you ever called on the name of Jesus in your time of greatest need? Calling on the name of Jesus does three things.

First, when you pray in the name of Jesus you are admitting your limitations. Sixteenth President of the United States Abraham Lincoln (1809-1865) once said, “I have been driven many times upon my knees by the overwhelming conviction that I had nowhere else to go. My own wisdom and that of all about me seemed insufficient for that day.”  How many times has life driven you to your knees? God always has our attention when life is hard. I witness that daily.

Did you know the countries with the highest conversion rates to Christianity are all found in Africa and Asia? No countries in Western Europe or North America are on the list. There are several reasons for this, but one stands out. The countries with the highest conversion rates also have the highest poverty rates. The areas of the world where Christianity is declining have the highest standard of living. In other words, the countries with the lowest conversion rates have the most money. God has a hard time getting our attention when people believe we are self-sufficient. That is why more American church mortgages were paid off during the Great Depression than any other decade in the twentieth century. How many people don’t pray because they don’t think they need God? They can take care of themselves. When we pray in the name of Jesus, we are admitting our limitations.

Second, when you pray in the name of Jesus you are identifying Jesus as your Lord and Savior. You are not praying in the name of Mohammed or Buddha. You are not calling on the name of your country or your favorite sports franchise. You are calling on the name of Jesus. In the scripture lesson, Paul commanded the spirit to come out in the name of Jesus. That is important because it shows Jesus’ authority over the spirit. This is not the only place. Jesus had authority over a variety of things in the Bible. When you pray in the name of Jesus, you are telling the world that you belong to him.

There is an old preaching story about Reverend E.P. Scott. He was a missionary to India in the 1800s. Against the advice of his peers, he decided to travel to a remote tribe to share the Gospel. Several days into his journey, he was confronted by a group of warriors. They took their spears and pointed them into his chest. He responded by pulling out his violin, closed his eyes and started singing, All Hail the Power of Jesus Name. The warriors didn’t know what to do so they lowered their spears. In time, the warriors began to cry. Scott’s life was saved and spent the rest of his life teaching that tribe about Jesus. There is something about that name, Jesus! When we pray in the name of Jesus, we are aligning ourselves with him.

Third, when you pray in the name of Jesus, you are surrendering to his will. One of the great stories in the Bible is the Garden of Gethsemane. You know the scene. It was Holy Week and so much had already happened. Jesus had entered Jerusalem on that humble animal. Jesus had already cursed the fig tree and taught at the temple. Jesus had already been anointed and shared that last Seder with the disciples. Judas Iscariot had already agreed to betray him for thirty pieces of silver. There was nothing left for Jesus to do but wait to be arrested. As he waits, he goes to the garden to pray. He knows of the coming ugliness. He struggles as he prays. In Luke 22:42 Jesus prays, Father, if you are willing, take this cup from me; yet not my will but your will be done.” Those are powerful words. Jesus does what many are unable to do – submit to God’s will.

Years ago, I received a phone call from a parishioner. She said, “Russ, I need your help.” She went on to tell me her neighbor’s son had been killed in a traffic accident. He was celebrating his twenty-first birthday and drank too much. When the highway patrol cut his lifeless body out of the car, they found a half-emptied case of beer and countless empty cans. I found out later his father had bought him the case of beer as a birthday present. Over the next few days, I spent several hours with the grieving mother. With red-rimmed eyes she asked me two questions. I will never forget them. First, “was God punishing my son for some past sin?” No, God did not make your son drink and drive. Second, “why didn’t God hear my prayer and save his life?” It was clear she was ignorant about prayer. Do you know of anyone who is ignorant about prayer? You must know someone.

In past blogs, I told you that God answers our prayers in four ways. Sometimes, God answers, “Yes.” That is what happened in the scripture lesson. The slave was healed. Sometimes, God answers, “No.” Paul was never healed from the thorn in his flesh. (2 Corinthians 12:7) Sometimes, God answers, “Later.” There are many examples of that in our world. Sometimes, God answers, “Are you crazy?” Like praying to win the lottery or watching the Cleveland Browns win the Super Bowl. We always want the answer to be yes, but it doesn’t always happen. The real question is, are you submitting to God? When you pray in the name of Jesus, you are admitting your limitations. When you pray in the name of Jesus, you are identifying Jesus as our Lord and Savior. When you pray in the name of Jesus, you are surrendering to his will. The great reformer, Martin Luther (1843-1546) understood the significance of prayer. He said, “To be a Christian without prayer is no more possible than to be alive without breathing.”

Don’t Give Up Fasting

Scottish evangelist Oswald Chambers (1874-1917) once said, “The Sermon on the Mount is a statement of the life we will live when the Holy Spirit is getting his way with us.” Jesus is setting the standard high. The Sermon on the Mount is found in the sixth, seventh and eighth chapters of Matthew. There are rich teachings found in these chapters. The Semon on the Mount includes the Beatitudes, and Jesus’s teachings on murder, adultery, divorce, along with his teachings on love, prayer and judging. In these chapters, Jesus teaches us to care for the needy. Standing with these memorable teachings is our reading, Matthew 6:16-18, about fasting. Many have chosen to ignore these words. I am one.

I was an active member of the clergy for 40 years. I served as a youth director in Frankford, Indiana for a year. I was the pastor of a small membership church outside of Danville, Kentucky for three years. Then, I served three United Methodist congregations in the old St. Clairsville District of the East Ohio Annual Conference for two years. I served a church outside of Medina, Ohio for a single year. Then, I served a church in Garfield Heights, Ohio for five years. During my last 28 years I served a church in Canfield, Ohio. That all adds up to 40 years. Conservatively, I have written approximately 2,000 sermons. Do you know how many sermons I have written on fasting? Including today’s blog, one! There is just something wrong with that imbalance. Jesus taught us about fasting, but we have ignored the whole topic. It is not just me. It is true of other preachers too.

My favorite website for “canned” sermon illustrations is called sermonillustrations.com. All the illustrations are arranged alphabetically in order of topic. If you want an illustration about grace, then you look up grace. If you want a sermon illustration about love, then you look up love. If you want an illustration on pickles, then you look up pickles. I thought they had an illustration on every topic, but I was wrong! I looked up an illustration on fasting and I got this response, “No illustrations yet”. I went to the internet highway and “GOOGLED” the question, what percentage of Americans fast? I was given information on the number of Americans who eat fast food.

Do you know of any Christians who fast for spiritual reasons? Through the years, I have met some amazing Christian people. I have known people who haven’t missed worship in decades. They even worship when they are on vacation. I know people who value prayer. I call them prayer warriors. I have known people who have studied the Bible and can quote it by chapter and verse. Just give them a Bible verse, they will quote it. Can you quote Ezekiel 31:9 right now? I have known people who take Holy Communion at home daily and people who won’t take an infant outside until after its baptism. I have known people who have served on all the church committees three times. I have known many people, but I have never known a single Christian who fasts for spiritual reasons. Do you know of anyone who fasts for spiritual reasons? That leads me to another question.

Jesus assumed in our reading people would fast, so why don’t we? Why have so many decided to ignore the spiritual discipline of fasting? I believe there are a couple of reasons. Some don’t fast for medical reasons, and they shouldn’t. If you are pregnant, then you should not fast. If you are a diabetic, then you should not fast. If you have a physical condition that depends on a regular diet, then you should not fast. Some don’t fast because they don’t completely understand the concept of fasting. A fast is not a diet. The goal is not to lose weight so you can look good in your swimsuit this summer. A fast is not a hunger strike where you refuse to eat to get attention for your cause. Many don’t fast because they are preoccupied with food. This is it in a nutshell: Most of us are more infatuated with food than we are with God. I don’t want that to sound harsh or judgmental. I want it to sound observant. How many people do you know who talk easily about food, but they never talk about God? The whole situation is sad.

However, those Christians who do fast say there are spiritual benefits. This is the list:

Fasting will strengthen your prayer life

Fasting will help you find God’s guidance

Fasting will help you grieve

Fasting will help you find divine deliverance or protection

Fasting will help you truly repent

Fasting will humble you before God

Fasting will enhance your sincerity

Fasting will help you overcome temptation

Fasting is not for those who are just curious about God. Fasting is for those who are infatuated with God. Are you just curious about God, or are you infatuated with God? John Wesley (1703-1791) said, “Fasting and prayer make a powerful combination.” The topic of fasting always reminds me of an experience I had years ago.

I decided to try a new program at my church. During that season of Lent, I formed a group called “Lunch with the Pastor”. The idea was simple. We would meet at noon in the fellowship hall and discuss that day’s sermon. I wrote a list of hard-hitting questions to discuss and ordered a sandwich ring. It was a simple straight forward idea. I thought, what can go wrong?

On the first Sunday of Lent, the little group gathered. On paper plates, we ate our sandwiches and chips. We drank out of paper cups. I couldn’t have cared less about the food. I wanted to dig into my hard-hitting questions. Before I could ask my first question, someone asked me a question. It torpedoed the whole group. This was their question: “Russ, what did you pay for the sandwich ring?” I didn’t remember. It was somewhere between a dollar and a million dollars. It didn’t matter, because I paid for it. She said, “I’ll cook lunch next week. I can serve this group for a fraction of the cost.” That grabbed everyone’s attention because everyone knows the purpose of the church is to save money and eat. She went on to tell us in detail everything she could cook and save money. I don’t think we covered a single question that day. We spent the whole time talking about food. The next week, I thought, this week will be better. I was wrong! When the time came, she provided lunch, and the food was cheaper and better. Someone else in the group announced they would cook the next week and then we had another fascinating discussion about cooking. On the third week, I gave up. My sermon discussion group with my outstanding hard-hitting questions turned into a recipe exchange club. We never met again, and no one ever missed it. I never tried such a group again. I just can’t compete with food. Can I state the obvious? Food is a good thing! However, there is something better: God! It’s a fair question: Are you more infatuated with food, or with God?

In the Bible, Moses, King David, Elijah, Queen Esther, Daniel, Anna the prophetess, the Apostle Paul and Jesus Christ all fasted for one reason. Each one was infatuated with God. Are you infatuated with God? Or are you more interested in food? Fasting is giving up something good to experience something better. There is nothing better than God. Never give up fasting!

Don’t Give Up Prayer

We find ourselves in the eleventh chapter of Luke. The story begins with Jesus praying. This is not surprising because Jesus prayed often. The scriptures tell us he prayed when he was alone and he prayed in public. He prayed before meals. He prayed before, and after healing. He prayed before making an important decision. He prayed to do God’s will, and he prayed before he taught about the importance of prayer. I feel comfortable saying, no one has ever prayed more than Jesus. This story begins with Jesus praying.

Once he had finished praying, the disciples asked him to teach them how to pray, like the followers of John. The disciples are not looking for instructions on how to hold their hands or close their eyes. The disciples are looking for exact words. Every rabbi, every teacher, taught their students, or disciples, scripted prayers. If you heard the prayer, then you could identify the individual’s rabbi. John had taught his disciples a certain prayer that was unique from all other rabbis. Jesus’s disciples wanted him to teach them a unique prayer so they can be like everyone else in their uniqueness. Luke’s version of the Lord’s Prayer has five different petitions. Matthew’s longer verse of the Lord’s Prayer, Matthew 6:9-13, has seven petitions. The disciples asked Jesus about prayer years ago, but the topic is still relevant.

Many people in our time do not understand prayer. As I have mentioned in recent blogs, prayer is not about getting what you desire. Prayer is about cultivating a friendship with God. During this season of Lent, I would encourage you to examine the attitudes you bring into your prayer life. Never forget, you are speaking to the God of the universe, not your next-door neighbor. Let me ask you three questions.

When you pray, do you pray with a grateful spirit? In Jesus’s prayer, he was thankful for his daily bread. Jesus doesn’t just want us to be thankful for life’s extras. He wants us to be thankful for life’s basics: your home, your food, your loved ones and your health. This is a fair question. Do you see what you have, or do you only see what you want? When you pray, do you pray with a grateful heart?

When you pray, do you pray with a forgiving spirit? In Jesus’s prayer, he tells us to forgive others, as God has forgiven us. Do you need to be liberated from your unforgiving heart? The event may have happened years ago, or it could have happened recently. In the end, your unforgiving heart is damaging you. Who do you need to forgive today? Is it possible you need to forgive yourself? How can you talk with God, who forgave you of so much, and not forgive someone else? When you pray, do you pray with a forgiving spirit?

When you pray, do you pray with a trusting spirit? In Jesus’s prayer, we are to trust God. “Lead us not into temptation.” The key word in that line is lead. There is a world of difference between being led and being an adviser. Many want to advise God. How far do you trust God? When you pray, do you pray with a trusting spirit? Let me end with this story.

Years ago, I was visiting someone at a local hospital. I parked in the parking deck, crossed the street and entered the hospital. After getting my person’s room number at the information desk, I headed for the elevators. I punched the up button and waited for the elevator to arrive. As I waited a young man joined me. He was wearing a knit cap and a red, green and black leather jacket. We stood side by side waiting for our elevator, but it was clear we came from different worlds.

I couldn’t help but notice he was holding a six-pack of Colt 45 under his arm. Don’t be so pious – you know what Colt 45 is. At one time, Billy Dee Williams (born 1937) was Colt 45’s spokesperson. It’s a malt liquor. I will be honest with you, I have never drunk a single Colt 45 because I am afraid. I am sure it tastes horrible, and someone told me when I was young, it could cause blindness. This is where the story gets interesting. I couldn’t resist. I looked at the young man and asked him if he bought the six-pack at the hospital gift shop. He laughed and smiled, revealing his gold tooth. He said, “No sir, I bought it at the gas station across the street.” I was afraid to enter that gas station too. He continued, “I’m taking them to my sick friend here in hospital and we are going to split them.” He asked me if I was visiting a sick friend. I said, “Yes,” and told him I was a minister. He put down his Colt 45 and stuck out his hand. As we shook hands, he said, “My name is Rodney. Why don’t you come with me to my friend’s room? You can say a short pray for him and the three of us can share some Colt 45.” I thanked him for the invitation but refused. My mom raised no fools. I just couldn’t see how it could end well. Can I ask you a question? Do you think Rodney had the right attitude about prayer? Maybe this is a better question.

Do you have the right attitude about prayer? Prayer is not just a way to get what you want. Prayer is cultivating a friendship with the God. The next time you pray ask yourself three questions: Do you pray with a grateful spirit? Do you pray with a forgiving spirit? Do you pray with a trusting spirit? Did you know 55% of all Americans pray daily? How many of those people pray with the right attitude? The great reformer Martin Luther (1483-1546) once said, “To be a Christian without prayer is no more possible than to be alive without breathing.” Never give up prayer!

Ash Wednesday

We are instructed from the Gospel of Luke. The author of this book is never mentioned by name, but we know certain things about him. He was a Gentile, who was well educated in Greek culture, and a physician by trade. He penned this Gospel approximately the year A.D. 70. The outline of Luke is geographical. The first section revolves around Jesus’s time in Galilee. The second section revolves around Jesus’s time in Judea. The third section revolves around Jesus’s time in Jerusalem. In our reading, Luke 9:18-26, Jesus is in Galilee.

In our reading, Jesus was a celebrity. Everyone was talking about him, and everyone wanted something from him. Everyone was guessing his identity. However, Jesus was not interested in everyone else’s opinion. Jesus was only interested in what the disciples thought about him. So, he asked them the question that changed everything: who do you say I am? The usually chatty disciples grew strangely silent. It is not that they don’t have an opinion, it was that they didn’t want to be wrong. It is Peter who answered first and correctly. He said, in verse 20, “God’s Messiah.” Jesus instructs the disciples to keep his identity a secret. The reason is simple – their generation misunderstood the word, Messiah. They longed for a military Messiah to liberate them from foreign rule. Instead, Jesus was a spiritual Messiah who came to liberate them from sin itself. Jesus says it clearly, but the disciples don’t listen. As the spiritual Messiah, Jesus will suffer, be rejected and die. However, that is not the end of the story. In the end, Jesus will be resurrected.

The power of the empty tomb is such a glorious thing. Jesus invites others to share in his glory. However, if you are going to follow Jesus, then you must be completely committed to him. People traditionally give up things for Lent to show the world they are completely committed to Jesus. If you are reading this blog, I am assuming you have decided to follow Jesus too. Let me ask you this question:

What are you going to give up for Lent? Did you know 24% of all Americans observe the season of Lent. Many give up something for Lent. Maybe you are giving up one of these things? The list changes from generation to generation. Are you giving up:

Chocolate or sweets
Alcohol
Smoking
Fast Food
Swearing
Social Media
Shopping
Sports
Caffeine
Meat

I hope you know the truth – Lent is not a season of self-deprivation; it is a season of spiritual renewal.To be honest, I don’t normallygive up anything for Lent, but I don’t think it is a bad thing. Instead I always try to be a better person.

Unlike Christmas and Easter, Lent has not crossed over into the secular world. The reason is obvious. Christmas and Easter emphasize receiving something. Lent emphasizes giving up something. There is nothing wrong with a little self-discipline. However, there are some things you should never give up. It is those things that grab our attention during this sacred season. The things we should never give up are the spiritual disciplines. You should never give up:

Prayer When was the last time you prayed? 55% of Americans pray daily. That number escalates to 88% when a loved one is facing hardship.

Fasting When was the last time you fasted? Do you understand the concept of fasting? Fasting creates time with God.

Worship Is worshipping a priority in your life, or is it something you do when your calendar is clear?

Meditation This is hard to do because time is limited. When was the last time you had time to just think about God and his mysterious ways?

The Bible When was the last time you read the Bible for your own edification? With over five billion copies sold, the Bible is the all-time best seller. Sadly, only 11% of Americans read the Bible daily.

These are five of the spiritual disciplines. I am going to look at each one over the coming weeks. I hope you read each one, because each one of these disciplines is vital to your spiritual health. Remember, Lent is a season of spiritual renewal.

Lent comes from the Anglo-Saxonword lencten,which means “spring.” Excluding Sundays, because every Sunday is a little Easter, Lent is a forty-day period. It correlates with Jesus who fasted forty days before being tempted by Satan. Lent begins this year on March 5, and it ends on Holy Saturday, April 19. What are you going to give up for Lent? Maybe this is a better question: What are you not going to give up for Lent? It has been said, Lent is not something we do for God, Lent is something we do with God.

Praying for the Lost

Our reading is 1 Timothy 2:1-6. This epistle was written in the year 60 by the apostle Paul. It is a personal letter. Paul is writing to an individual, Timothy. It cannot be overstated, the relationship between Paul and Timothy was close. Many believed Paul led Timothy to faith in Christ. In time, Paul trusted Timothy enough to lead the church in his absence. This letter is a word of instruction to a young pastor.

Our reading needs some interpretation. Paul is encouraging Timothy to pray for political leaders. When these words were written the ultimate political power was Nero. (A.D. 54-68). Paul wants Timothy to pray for Nero, as well as other political leaders. He is not interested in them making wise policies on behalf of the country. Paul is asking Timothy to pray for their salvation. Verse three and four say it best, “this is good, and pleases God our Savior, who wants all people to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth.” The salvation of these political leaders means two things. First, it means they will have better lives in this world. Second, it means they will spend eternity with God. When was the last time you prayed for someone else’s salvation? Do you know of anyone who is spiritually lost? This blog is about praying for the spiritually lost. There are three reasons, let me list them for you.

In 2004, mighty winds blew down the backyard fence of Barne’s family home. Within a matter of minutes the family dog, named “Sam I Am,” ran away. They looked everywhere for him, but he couldn’t be found. Sad but true, the family pressed forward without him. For two years the family functioned with a void in their lives, especially seven-year-old Brett. However, he never forgot his dog and never gave up hope. Two years later his faithfulness was rewarded. The Florida family received a phone call from McHenry County Animal Shelter in Illinois. They had in their possession “Sam I Am.” The dog was identified with the help of a microchip in his collar. No one could answer how the dog survived for the two-year period? Or how “Sam I Am” traveled more than 1200 miles? Seven-year-old Brett didn’t care about the details. The only thing that mattered to him was that his lost dog was found. This is the best part – the dog didn’t even know he was lost. That is the story of our world. Two-thirds of our world are lost, and they don’t even know it.

Sometimes people are lost because they are misinformed. I know this will sound politically incorrect, narrow-minded and judgmental, however, our only hope of salvation is in Jesus. Christianity is the only religion in the world that offers the truth. I respect the beliefs of other world religions, but I believe Christianity is the truth. There are 8.025 billion people in the world. Two-thirds of the world’s population does not follow Jesus; Two-thirds of the world’s population is misinformed. Your belief in Jesus is not optional; your belief in Jesus is indispensable. The salvation of your very soul depends upon it. Sometimes people are spiritually lost because they are misinformed.

One of the great stories in the Bible comes from the twenty-third chapter of Luke. It is late in Jesus’ earthly life. It is so near the end Jesus finds himself hanging on the cross. You remember the story. He is one of three to die that day and Jesus is hanging in the middle. As they wait for death to come, the three talk. One man asks Jesus to save him. The other man rebukes him. He says they deserve to die for their deeds, but Jesus has done nothing wrong. In Luke 23:43, Jesus says, “I tell you the truth, today you will be with me in paradise.” The man did nothing to deserve salvation, but he was going to heaven. It wasn’t logical. He was saved by grace and by grace alone. It doesn’t sound logical, but we are saved by grace and by grace alone.

Sometimes people are spiritually lost because they are misguided. This happens when people try to make their salvation logical. There is nothing logical about the Christian faith. The cornerstone of our faith is the illogical resurrection of Jesus. It breaks scientific law. Your salvation is not logical. You cannot earn your way into heaven. We are saved by grace and by grace alone! Sometimes people are lost because they are misguided.

Sometimes people are spiritually lost because they are misdirected. That happens when church people replace Jesus with the organizational church or a pastor. The organizational church cannot save you. Your pastor cannot save you. Churches only exist for three reasons. First, churches exist to worship God. Second, churches exist to teach you about Jesus. Third, churches exist to help you live out your purpose. Pastors are called to orchestrate these three things. Don’t confuse your devotion to your organizational church with Jesus. They are two different things. You can know everything about your church and nothing at all about Jesus. Do you know of anyone who loves their church but is only slightly interested in Jesus? Sometimes people are spiritually lost because they are misdirected.

In 1994, my daughter, Anna, was four years old. My wife Kathryn entrusted her to me after a church dinner one Sunday. I got busy talking to people and the time passed quickly. When it was time to go home, I began looking for Anna. She had been playing with a few other children, so I began looking for her in the normal spots, my office and the nursery. Then, I looked in the Sunday school rooms, and I called down the back hall. I walked through the parlor and into the kitchen. I asked everyone, “Has anyone seen Anna?” No one had seen her, but one of the saints named Bob offered to help me look. We looked behind the stage and in the narthex. I began to panic as I looked under the pews in the sanctuary. I thought about the last child on the news who had been abducted. I thought about telling my wife our daughter was gone. I remember feeling like a horrible parent, and I will be honest, I almost began to cry. As the first tear was coming, Bob returned and said, “I found her.” He motioned me to follow him, and he led me to the front of the church building. Anna was sitting under the portico throwing rocks. While I was dying a thousand deaths, she was having the time of her life! This is the truth.

When I get to heaven, I am going to look for Anna again. It wouldn’t be the same without her. I am going to look for her and I am going to find her. I have no question about my children’s salvation. I have no question about my wife’s salvation. We know it begins and ends with Jesus. But I am not just going to look for them. I am going to look for other people in my life. When I get to heaven, I am going to look for Bob and thank him for his help on that day. I am going to look for all the people who have filled my life. This is the question you must answer. Do you know it all begins and ends with Jesus? He is our only hope of salvation. Heaven wouldn’t be the same without you! Who are you going to look for when you get to heaven?

Praying for the Sick

There is an old preaching story from the mission field. An African tribe had collected their sick and delivered them to the medicine man who stood in front of a fire. He examined each one and divided them into three groups. He stood in front of the first group and gave them something to eat from the boiling pot that sat behind him. Then, he sent them home. The second group he gave herbs from local plants. Then, he sent them home. He simply prayed for the third group. Then, he sent them home. A Christian missionary witnessed this event and was filled with questions. He asked the medicine man later, “What does this mean?” The medicine man replied, “The first group was sick because they needed a better lifestyle. I gave them vegetable soup and sent them home to rest. The second group needed medicine. The local herbs I gave them had healing power. The third group needed more help than I could offer. I prayed that God would heal them in miraculous ways.”

That story makes one point: all healing really comes from God. You may experience healing if your lifestyle improves. You may experience healing through modern medicine. You may experience healing because of divine intervention. Don’t dismiss any of these methods. The sick don’t care about how they are healed, the sick only want to be healed. Have you ever prayed for someone who was sick? Before I look at the scripture text, let me examine these three sources of healing.

Sometimes people experience healing because they just need a healthier lifestyle. America is facing a health crisis. According to the national Institutes of Diabetes and Kidney Disease, nearly one in three Americans is considered obese. There are thousands of websites devoted to losing weight and maintaining a healthy lifestyle. Each website seems to have a list of things to do. The Mayo Clinic has a website devoted to healthy living. This is their list of what to do:

Eat nourishing food
Sleep seven to eight hours per night
Keep company with good people
Avoid news overdose
Get regular exercise
Do something meaningful each day
Think good thoughts about others

Do you do everything on that list, or do you have some work to do? Sometimes people experience healing because they need a healthier lifestyle.

Sometimes people experience healing because of modern medicine. Late in 1949, my paternal grandmother, Orbie Adams (1893-1949), came home from church. Her morning had been filled with Sunday School children and worship. She was doing what she always did after church – preparing lunch for her family. It was during that normal routine she suffered a fatal heart attack. She knew she had high blood pressure, so she watched the amount of salt she consumed. My grandfather, Roger Adams (1893-1980), said she didn’t take blood pressure medicine because there weren’t any blood pressure medicines in 1949. I inherited my high blood pressure from my father, Ronald Adams (1920-1996), who inherited it from his mother. The only difference between me and my grandmother is time. I have been taking blood pressure medicine for the past thirty-eight years. These are good times to be alive. The advances in modern medicine are truly incredible. Sometimes people experience healing because of a better lifestyle. Sometimes people experience healing because of modern medicine.

Sometimes people experience healing by divine interaction. At one time Kathryn Kuhlman (1907-1976) was a polarizing figure in America. She was born in Missouri in 1907 and became a born-again Christian through the ministry of the Methodist Church in 1921. At the age of sixteen she began preaching in the west. However, her identity is not as a preacher. She will always be remembered as a faith healer. She claimed to have many healings during her “healing crusades” from the 1940s into the 1970s. Her ministry reached its zenith when her television program, I Believe in Miracles, went nationally. Some believed she had divine power; some believed she was a fraud.

How do you feel about faith healing? The Gospels are filled with miracles. The lame could suddenly walk. The blind could suddenly see. Demoniacs were made whole. The lepers were made clean. I believe that in our world there are still instances of divine interaction. Those stories are important because they remind us God is active in our world. Have you ever known someone who has been healed? Sometimes people experience healing because of a better lifestyle. Sometimes people experience healing because of modern medicine. Sometimes people experience healing by divine interaction. That takes us to our scripture reading.

Our reading is James 5:13-16. Written in the early 60s, James was the oldest stepbrother of Jesus. According to Acts 15, James was a prominent Christian leader in Jerusalem. This letter was written to the scattered Christians throughout the world. It is clear that James understood the power of prayer. These few verses can be broken down into two sections. The first section deals with physical healing. Verse thirteen and fourteen tells us to pray during life’s hardships, including sickness. The second section deals with spiritual healing. Verse sixteen tells us to confess our sins so we may be healed. Do you see what James did? He connects physical healing and spiritual healing. Why? He knows physical healing is temporary, but spiritual healing is eternal. We are preoccupied with physical healings because we are preoccupied with the things of this world. God, on the other hand, is preoccupied with spiritual healing because God is preoccupied with eternity. Don’t miss the point – everyone Jesus healed physically is now dead; everyone who accepted Jesus spiritually is still alive!

When I was in seminary, I had a friend named David. He was from the state of Michigan and was part of the Christian Missionary Alliance Church. I liked him from the very beginning. However, his story was sad. Prior to his seminary days he had been diagnosed with a brain tumor. His body was weak from that battle. However, his mind and spirit were sound. For two years he had been tumor free, but in the last year of his studies the unthinkable happened. The brain tumor reappeared. Everyone prayed for him. The seminary community prayed for him. The Christian Missionary Alliance Church prayed for him. Loved ones in Michigan prayed for him. Everyone who heard David’s story prayed for him. We contacted everyone at home to pray for David. God heard our prayers and God responded to our prayers with a loud, “No!” In time, David died. I went to David’s funeral and heard all the stories.

Someone spoke about what had happened to David one Sunday night. He was physically weak, but he had enough strength to go to a healing service. It was at that healing service David received some misguided teaching. The preacher anointed David with oil and told him healing was still possible. All he had to do was believe. The only thing holding the healing back was his own lack of faith. David was not healed, and he left that prayer service broken-hearted. He felt like a second-rate Christian, full of doubts. It was in that broken state that David died a few days later. He left this world feeling like a spiritual failure. That healing service preacher did David a great disservice. The preacher applied guilt to a man who needed grace. Do you know of anyone who died feeling like a spiritual failure? David wasn’t healed physically, but David was healed spiritually. No one questioned his salvation. When I get to heaven, I am going to look for David. Sometimes healing comes because of a better lifestyle. Sometimes healing comes from medical treatment. However, real healing comes from Jesus!

Praying for Loved Ones

Today, Amanda Knox (born 1987) is an advocate for the unjustly incarcerated and a campaigner for just reform. The reason is obvious. At one time she was unjustly incarcerated. Do you remember her story? She was a University of Washington student who went to Italy to study. It should have been a dream come true, but it became a nightmare. In 2009, she was found guilty of murdering her roommate, Meredith Kercher (1985-2007). In 2011, that verdict was appealed and finally revised. On the day that verdict was read her loved ones gathered, including her grandmother, Elizabeth Huff (born 1942). No one can question Elizabeth’s love for Amanda. She went $250,000 in debt from the legal fees. Huff said, “I have been praying for Amanda every day. She is a good girl, and she needs a hug. I need a hug too!” When was the last time you prayed for a loved one? That takes us to our scripture reading.

Our reading is Philippians 1:3-11. The city of Philippi was a prosperous Roman colony in present day Greece, whose citizens were considered Roman citizens. The background of this epistle is interesting. Paul wrote this letter to them from a Roman prison cell in the year 61 A.D. You can consider it a thank-you note. He is responding to a gift they had sent him. In other words, Paul and the Philippians had a connection; there was an intimate spirit between them. They had history. That congregation understood Paul; they respected Paul. They knew the importance of his mission, so, they sent him an unknown gift. However, the gift wasn’t just a gift – it was a reminder. They wanted him to know he wasn’t alone. They were praying for Paul, and Paul was praying for them. Paul’s prayer is very personal. This blog is about praying for loved ones. Our reading will help you when you pray for your loved ones. Paul’s prayer acts as a model for us. Consider these three things. This is the first one.

When you pray for a loved one, be appreciative. For many years. Kathryn and I traveled to Russia to help orphans who would never be adopted. On many of those trips we traveled to Dmitrov, which is approximately fifty miles north of Moscow. It is the home of the Renewal Orphanage. Those trips were life-changing for everyone who traveled with us.

One year, we took a teenager from my church. I met with his mother before we left.

She said, “I am looking at this trip to Russia as a once in a lifetime opportunity. I want him to see how the rest of the world lives, so he will appreciate the things we have in America!” She was right. It was amazing what you miss about home when you are gone. However, it is my experience, the thing team members miss the most are the relationships they have in America. What do you miss when you travel? Who do you miss when you travel?

When you pray for a loved one, be appreciative. In other words, their very presence is enough for you. Verses three and four say, “I thank my God every time I remember you. In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy.” Those are positive words. How thankful are you for the people in your life? Their very presence is enough. Pray with a positive spirit when you pray for someone in your life. Are you thankful for their very presence? How would your life change if they were suddenly gone? Never take your loved ones for granted, be appreciative. This is the second one.

When you pray for a loved one, be reflective. Abraham Lincoln (1809-1865) was born on February 12, 1809, in Hardin County, Kentucky. He had a hard life as a young man. He wasn’t close to his father, Samuel (1778-1851). Their relationship was difficult. Lincoln didn’t even return home when his father was near death. His biological mother died when he was nine years old. When Lincoln was ten his father married a widow from Elizabethtown, Kentucky, Sarah Bush (1784-1818). She had three children of her own. However, she treated young Abraham like one of her own. Lincoln recognized her as the greatest influence in his life. From the very beginning he called her mother. She was the first one to recognize his brilliance and encouraged him to study.

When you pray for a loved one, be reflective. In other words, reflect on how that person has changed your life. Verse seven says, “It is right for me to feel this way about all of you, since I have you in my heart and, whether I am in chains or defending and confirming the gospel, all of you share in God’s grace with me.” That is not a general proclamation, it is a personal comment. Paul changed their lives by introducing them to Jesus, but they changed Paul life as well. How have the people in your life improved you? Who has had the greatest influence on your life? When you pray for your loved ones, be reflective. This is number three.

When you pray for loved ones, be purpose driven. Verses nine through eleven says, “And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless for the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ—to the glory and praise of God.” In other words, Paul is reminding them what is important in life – Jesus!

One of the greatest challenges in life is finding your purpose. Your purpose is not necessarily your profession; the two are not necessarily the same. However, they do stand side by side. Your profession is how you make money. Your money does two things. First, it meets your needs. Second, it funds your purpose. In 1648, The Westminster Confession of Faith was finalized and has influenced the Presbyterian Church since. It says the purpose of life is to glorify God. How are you glorifying God in your life? When was the last time you prayed for someone else’s purpose? Let me end with this question.

When was the last time you prayed for a loved one? It may be an aging parent who is struggling to remain independent. It may be a child on the first day of school. It may be an adult child who is self-destructive. It may be a sibling who can’t keep a job or find love. It may be your spouse, you have a front row seat to their drama. They are tired, stressed out, sick, depressed or overwhelmed. After all, life is not easy. Have you ever prayed for a loved one’s salvation? How could you enjoy eternity without them? Those are personal prayers. I would guess most of our prayers revolve around our closest relationships. How often do you pray for the people in your life? In those prayers be appreciative, be reflective and be purpose driven. American Episcopal clergyman Phillips Brooks (1835-1893) once said, “A prayer is a wish turned Godward.”

Praying for Yourself

Years ago, before man walked on the moon, before a civil war threatened to divide our country, before Columbus discovered a New World, there was a man who spoke for God. His name means “help” or “helper,” but we simply call him Ezra. He lived during the fifth century B.C. and spoke to the people of Judah, who had returned from exile. His goal was to restore the community. Tradition tells us he wrote First and Second Chronicles in the Old Testament.

Our scripture reading is 1 Chronicles 4:9-10. It is a short prayer hidden in the genealogical text of Judah. The one who uttered that prayer was Jabez, who was an ancestor of the kings of Judah. Jabez means “he makes sorrowful,” because his mother had a hard time at his birth. Yet, his name did not define him. He grew up to be a doctor of the law, who was known for his noble character. In his prayer he asks for the desires of his heart. He asks for God’s protection, and asks for God to increase his wealth. Jabez is praying for himself. God answers his prayer with yes. Perhaps that is why so many are interested in his prayer. We believe in prayer, and we would like God to smile on our requests.

Did you know, according to the City Square Research Group, 85% of Americans say they use some kind of spiritual practice to connect to a higher power?

Did you know 61% of that group pray?

Did you know 50% of prayers pray when they are awakened in the morning?

Did you know 55% of prayers pray at bedtime?

Did you know 61% of prayers pray in their car?

Did you know 46% of prayers pray in their place of worship?

Did you know 87% of prayers believe they have received an answer to their prayers in the past twelve months?

Do you know of anyone who doesn’t believe in prayer?

In 2000, Multnomah Books released a book call The Prayer of Jabez. It was written by David Wilkerson (1931-2011). I remember the uproar over the book. It sold more than nine million copies. The book was popular because many believe in prayer, and everyone wants God to grant them their requests. However, Jabez’s prayer does not hold a secret formula on how to prosper, but it does raise two questions. I want to look at those two questions in this blog. These questions and thoughts are not original. They came from Thomas Tewell (born 1949) of the United Presbyterian Church. This is question number one.

Should you pray for the desires of your heart? Peter the Great (1672-1725) led Russia out of isolation. He introduced the Russian people to Europe. He grew to be a rich and powerful man. In his court there was a philosopher of outstanding ability who had little money, and he asked Peter for financial help. He was told to draw whatever he needed from the imperial treasury. But when the man requested an amount equal to $50,000, he was refused – the treasurer needing to verify that such a large sum was authorized. When he asked Peter, the ruler replied, “Pay the money at once. The philosopher has done me a singular honor. By the largeness of his request, he shows that he has understood both my wealth and generosity.”

The prayer of Jabez says, “Oh, that you would bless me and enlarge my territory! Let your hand be with me and keep me from harm so that I may be free from pain.” Jabez’s prayer illustrates for us that we should be honest with God. Those were the things he wanted. Those were the greatest dreams of his life. What is your greatest dream in your life? You have the license to share your dreams with God; He wants us to be honest with him. You need to believe in a great big God, who is generous with his blessings. Jabez asked for protection and riches, and he received it. What are the desires of your heart? The answer to every prayer is no until it is asked. Feel free to ask God for the desires of your heart. This is question number two.

What is answered prayer? I will always remember Jean as a big-hearted person. She was a friend of my sister’s. When we were young, she was always at our house. At some level, she was family. As an adult she became a foster parent to children who needed love. She taught home economics in the Youngstown City Schools in Ohio and had a passion for her students. Jean deserved better, but one day the test results came back, and she had cancer. She asked everyone to pray for her and we did. We prayed for her, until the day she died. Even though Jean wasn’t my friend, I felt the loss. On the day she was buried some say God didn’t answer our prayers. They were wrong. Just think about it for a moment.

Many experienced God through Jean’s illness. Her death changed us. We discovered what was important in life. Because of those prayers we rekindled childhood friendships. Because of those prayers she experienced the power of the church. Jean was not a church going person, but the church reached out to her. Because of those prayers, we learned to appreciate every healthy day of our lives. Because of those prayers, we learned to appreciate the people in our lives. Because of those prayers we experienced God.

Answered prayer is not getting what you want. Sometimes God answers our prayers with a “yes.” Sometimes God answers our prayers with a “no.” Sometimes God answers our prayers with a “later” and sometimes with an “are you crazy?” Never forget, prayer is cultivating a friendship with God. Answered prayer is being aligned with God’s will. The great missionary E. Stanley Jones (1884-1973) once said, “Prayer is surrender –surrender to the will of God and cooperation with that will.” Our prayers are answered when we experience God.

Sir George Adam Smith (1856-1942) was a Scottish theologian. He told a story of how he and his guide were climbing the Weisshorn in the Swiss Alps. It was stormy and they were making their climb on the sheltered side of the peak. When they reached the summit, they were filled with exhilaration. Sir George forgot about the fierce winds. He leaped up and was nearly blown over the edge to the glacier below! The guide grabbed hold of him and exclaimed: “On your knees, sir. You are safe here only on your knees!” The same is true of life. We are only safe when we are on our knees. Alfred Lloyd Tennyson (1809-892) said, “Nearer than hands and feet, even than breath, that is how near God is to us when we pray.”

Never Give Up!

Our reading is Luke 18:1, “Then Jesus told his disciples a parable to show them that they should always pray and never give up.” The parable Jesus told was the parable of the persistent widow. At that time and place, widows were particularly vulnerable because pensions, government assistance and life insurance were not available to them. The only weapon this woman had in her arsenal was perseverance. In the end, the widow was rewarded for her perseverance and received justice. As with all parables there is only one point – the point of this parable is to persevere in the Christian journey. In the end, we will be rewarded for our perseverance too. Webster defines perseverance as: doing something despite difficulty or delay. We must never give up!

The word perseverance resonates in American society, because our society values persistence. It has been said many times that no one likes a quitter. We wonder about the couple who call off the marriage after a few months. We despise parents who abandon their children. We salute the retiree, who labored at the same job for decades. We marvel at the person who celebrates their one-hundredth birthday. We celebrate the couple on their gold wedding anniversary and admire the century home. We respect the farmer whose family has owned that land for generations. Many treasure a well-aged wine. Our society values things that take time. Why should the Christian life be any different?

Paul knew what Jesus knew during his earthly ministry, that there is power in perseverance because longevity has a way of changing us. Roman 5:3-5 says, “Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.” That was Paul’s story. He endured many hardships, but he remained faithful to Jesus. I led worship for decades. I was a true pastor; I knew my people and their problems. Some faced great challenges, yet they were in worship weekly. They refused to walk away from the faith. They would agree persistence is important because it does three things. Let me look at each one.

First, persistence transforms you! Life is not easy and many times we go to God with our problems and concerns. Those times with God are valuable because it is at those times we change. God is influencing your life, and you are becoming a better person. You become a kinder person. You become a more compassionate person. You become a more loving person. Are you a better person today than you were ten years ago? How much time do you spend with God? Spending time with God will transform you.

Christian writer Max Lucado (born 1955) admits he was a closet slob. Prior to being married, a messy home never bothered him. There was always a pile of old newspapers. There was always a pile of dirty dishes in the sink. The bed was never made. Everything changed when he got married. His wife, Denalyn (1956), liked a clean house. She forced him to pick up and he didn’t like it. For several years, he was in training then one day his wife announced she would be going away for a few days. He was going to miss her, but he looked forward to living like a slob again. He wasn’t going to clean or pick up things until the day before she returned. When she first left the mess began to build. It was at that moment something happened he didn’t expect. The mess began to bother him. He began to clean on his own. He was a reformed slob! His wife had changed him. The same thing happens when you spend time with God. Persistence has a way of transforming you. Never give up on the Christian journey!

Second, persistence humbles you! Looking back, there was a time in my life I was living the life of a fraud. I wanted to convey to the world my life was perfect. I was an independent thinker, who could provide for my own needs. Time taught me this simply wasn’t going to happen. I do my best to control the controllables, but there are many things in life that are out of my control. I am comfortable confessing; I am more dependent on God today than ever. I hope he is controlling my thoughts, and I know he is providing for my needs. Persistence humbles you.

In 1857, a woman by the name of Cassie Chadwick (1957-1907) was born in western Canada. At the age of 24, she moved to Cleveland, Ohio and began her career as a fraud. She always appeared to be someone she wasn’t and was excellent at it. She became famous. She defrauded several U.S. banks out of millions of dollars claiming to be the illegitimate daughter and heir of Andrew Carnegie (1835-1919). When she died at the age of fifty, she went by eight different names. Sometimes things aren’t what they appear. I hope that is not your story. How has life humbled you? Are you tired of living the life of a fraud? Persistence has a way of humbling you. Never give up on the Christian journey!

Third, persistence helps you to focus on God! Philippians 3:12 says, “I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me.” Keeping Jesus, the focal point of your life, is not easy. Life is filled with many distractions. Some of those distractions are challenging circumstances, illness and natural disasters. How many of our distractions are good things – our relationships, jobs, and hobbies. Those are good things, but they are not the best things in life. The best thing in life is God. Hardships and troubles remind us we have a spiritual side. Perseverance helps you focus on God.

It is my experience that people do not return to church after years of being absent because of the music program or they want to make new friends. It is my experience personal crisis leads people back to church. It may be the loss of a loved one, a health challenge, a relationship issue, or they are facing a stressful life experience, like relocating, starting a new job, or retirement. Each returning worshipper wants a stronger connection with God and inner peace. Persistence helps us focus on God. Never give up on the Christian journey!

In 1972, NASA launched the exploratory space probe Pioneer 10. The satellite’s primary mission was to reach Jupiter, photograph the planet and its moons, and beam data to earth about Jupiter’s magnetic field, radiation belts, and atmosphere. Scientists feared the asteroid belt would destroy the satellite before it could reach its target. They had nothing to fear. Pioneer 10 accomplished its mission and much, much more. Swinging past the giant planet in November 1973, Jupiter’s immense gravity hurled Pioneer 10 at a higher rate of speed toward the edge of the solar system. At one billion miles from the sun, Pioneer 10 passed Saturn. At some two billion miles, it passed Uranus; Neptune at nearly three billion miles; Pluto at almost four billion miles. By 1997, twenty-five years after its launch, Pioneer 10 was more than six billion miles from the sun. And despite that immense distance, Pioneer 10 continued to beam back radio signals to scientists on Earth. The last radio communication with Pioneer 10 was on January 23, 2003. Pioneer 10 was designed to last 21 months, yet it lasted more than 30 years.

We remember the name Pioneer 10 for one reason – it is a story of perseverance. It never gave up. How will you be remembered? Will you be remembered as one who quit the Christian journey because life was hard? Or will you be remembered as one who persevered? Jesus told the disciples years ago what he expects from us today. We must never give up!

Cultivating An Eternal Friendship

Our reading is Luke 11:1-4. It was the custom of every rabbi to teach their disciples to pray and each rabbi taught their disciples a unique prayer. For example, John the Baptist taught his disciples a specific prayer. If you knew the prayer, then you knew the rabbi; that specific prayer was their identity. Jesus’ disciples wanted a unique prayer because they wanted to be identified with Jesus. So, they asked Jesus the question in verse one, “’Lord, teach us to pray, just as John taught his disciples.’” The prayer Jesus taught the disciples has become a model of prayer for generations. Obviously, prayer is important! Martin Luther King Jr. (1929-1968) said, “To be a Christian without prayer is no more possible then to be alive without breathing.” What is prayer?

Don’t think of prayer as a way of getting something you desire from God. Think of prayer as a tool used to develop a friendship with God. That shift changes everything. You know how to have friends in this world so let me ask you these two questions. First, if you treated your friends like you treat God, would you have any friends? Second, if you treated God like you treated your friends, how would your relationship with God improve? In this blog, I want to talk about three things that must be present in all your friendships, especially in your friendship with God. These thoughts are not original. They came from United Methodist’s James W. Moore (1938-2019). Each one is illustrated for us in Luke’s version of the Lord’s Prayer. Let me begin.

First, if you want to cultivate a friendship with God, then a spirit of gratitude must be present. Is a spirit of gratitude present in your prayers? Verses two and three say, “He said to them, “When you pray, say: ‘Father, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come. Give us each day our daily bread.’” Those are words of gratitude. You are anticipating God’s blessings. There is no such thing as an ungrateful Christian. If you are a disciple of Jesus Christ, then you are striving to become like Jesus. The Master was thankful for everything. Are you thankful for everything? How many blessings in your life do you take for granted? If you want to be friends with God, then you must be thankful for everything!

I led worship in various churches for forty years. I never served a megachurch. I served small and medium size congregations. It was the custom in those churches to ask for prayer requests. Each week it was the same. Hands would fly up. People asked for all kinds of things. We prayed for replaced knees and hips. We prayed for hearts and lungs. We pray for strangers who are facing terminal illnesses and battling depression. We prayed for dogs whose noses were no longer wet and cold. The list was endless. Everyone seemed to have a prayer request, but our joys are another issue. Periodically, I would ask, “What are you thankful for today?” The reaction is completely different. Instead of hands flying in the air, I got the deer in the headlights look. There was an awkward moment of silence. After a few painful seconds the leader of the group would say something like, “I am thankful I am on the right side of the sod.” Everyone laughed and was relieved it was over. The whole scene was sad. It was not the fear of public speaking, it was the absence of a grateful heart. Jesus was thankful for the simplest things. Do your prayers reflect a spirit of gratitude? If you want to be friends with God, then you must be thankful for everything!

Second, if you want to cultivate a friendship with God, then a spirit of forgiveness must be present. Verse four says, “Forgive us our sins, for we also forgive everyone who sins against us.” No one is perfect. From time to time our friends disappoint us. It is at that moment we must decide – do we forgive the person, or do we end the friendship? If you want to have a friendship with God, then you must have a spirit of forgiveness. Do the people in your life consider you a forgiving person? When was the last time you forgave someone else? When was the last time you asked God for forgiveness?

One of the great masterpieces in the art world is Leonardo da Vinci’s (1452-1519) The Last Supper. It is said the great artist had a fight with a fellow painter during its creation. To get back at his foe Leonardo decided to paint his face on Judas Iscariot. He did so and then he turned to work on the face of Jesus. With hatred in his heart, the creative spirit of da Vinci ceased. For several days he couldn’t paint a single stroke. He knew the problem. He had to forgive the fellow painter, and he did. That night Leonardo da Vinci dreamed, and he saw the face of Jesus. That face is the face that appears as Jesus in the Last Supper. The point is clear – we can only encounter God when there is a spirit of forgiveness. Is there someone in your life you need to forgive? Do your prayers reflect a spirit of forgiveness? If you want to be friends with God, then you must have a spirit of gratitude and forgiveness!

Third, if you want to cultivate a friendship with God, then you must have a trusting spirit. The prayer ends by saying, “lead us not into temptation.” To be led by someone means you must trust them. Do you trust God? Each one of the spiritual heroes in our faith trusted God. One example is Abraham. Do you remember his story? It is found in the twenty-second chapter of Genesis. For a lifetime Abraham and Sarah waited for a child. Isaac was born in their old age. He must have been the joy of their lives. The story should have ended on a happy note, but we are told Abraham first had to be tested. Abraham must sacrifice the most important thing in his life, Isaac. It is not a story about child abuse or human sacrifice, it is a story about trust. Abraham trusted God. How far to you trust God? Do your prayers reflect a trusting spirit? If you want to be friends with God, then you must have a spirit of gratitude, forgiveness and trust! Let me end with this story.

Mother Teresa (1910-1997) is remembered for her work with the orphans in Calcutta, India. One day, the head cook was upset because a food order hadn’t been delivered and she was expecting three hundred for lunch in less than an hour. Everyone expected Mother Theresa to contact one of her sponsors. Instead, she looked at the kitchen staff and said, “I suggest you go to the chapel and pray about this situation. They did, and ten minutes later a stranger showed up at the front door holding a clipboard. He requested to see Mother Theresa. When she arrived, he said to her, “The teachers have just gone on strike, so school has been canceled today. I have 7,000 extra lunches. Can you help us use them?” Isn’t it great when prayer is answered with a yes? I learned long ago; God hears all our prayer and answers them in four different ways. Sometimes, God says yes. Sometimes, God says no. Sometimes, God says later. Sometimes, God answers our selfish, narrow-minded prayers by saying, are you crazy? (Like when you pray for the Cleveland Browns to win the Super Bowl.) Never forget, the point of prayer is not getting what you desire. The point of prayer is cultivating a friendship with God. Danish theologian and philosopher Soren Kierkegaard (1813-1855) said, “Prayer does not change God, but it changes him who prays.”