About Memorials

We find ourselves in the fourth chapter of Joshua, verses one through nine. After forty years in the wilderness, the people have just crossed the Jordan River and entered the Promised Land. The first thing they did was build a memorial. God instructs Joshua to take twelve stones, one representing each tribe, from the middle of the Jordan (verse 2). God stops the water from flowing to make their task easier (verse 7). The stones are taken to dry ground and piled up. That pile of stones act as a memorial to future generations (verses 6-7). There was nothing unique about that memorial. It is just a pile of rocks, but it served a purpose. It did what all memorials do. Memorials do two things. They remind us of the past, and they remind us of what is important. Consider those two things.

Memorials help us remember the past. As future generations looked at that pile of rocks, they didn’t just remember the day their ancestors crossed the Jordan, they remembered everything their ancestors endured. They remembered the patriarchs: Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, and Joseph. They remembered how Joseph saved the people from famine and led them into Egypt. They remembered how their ancestors were enslaved by the Egyptians. They remembered Moses, their liberator. They remembered the day their ancestors left Egypt and how God parted the sea for them. They remembered the day Moses came down from Mount Sinai with the Ten Commandants and their years in the wilderness. They remembered Joshua and the generation that seized their land. Memorials are designed to help us remember the past and help us see how much life has changed. It is still true today.

Off the Marblehead Peninsula in northwest Ohio is Johnson Island. It is a great place for camping and fishing. In the 1860s, it was a great place to build a prisoner of war camp during the Civil War. I have been there many times. I have read the historical marker and examined the memorial countless times. The story is interesting. When the Civil War began, many believed it would end in a matter of days. They were wrong, the war lasted for years. A problem soon developed for the Union – what was the Union to do with Confederate prisoners of war? They wanted to relocate them to an isolated spot, so they chose Johnson Island. The POW camp was hastily established. History tells us life in that camp was hard. Death was common. The only thing that remains today is a small cemetery. I have read the names on those headstones’ countless times. The home states are mentioned. Most came from the deep South. Sadly, they never returned home. However, the thing that captures my imagination about Johnson Island is the location. If you take that short walk from the cemetery to the shores of Lake Erie, you can see all the rides of Cedar Point. If you turn one way you see the graves. If you turn around, you can see the amusement park. The contrast is shocking! That location reminds us that our world has changed over the past 160 years.

How much has our world changed in the last 160 years? When the Civil War was fought America was an agricultural nation. My family hasn’t owned a farm in four generations. When the Civil War was being fought illiteracy was high. I do not know a single person who cannot read and write. When the Civil War was being fought, horses were the main mode of transportation. I cannot even ride a horse. During the Civil War communication was dominated by handwritten letters. Do you know of anyone who doesn’t have a cell phone? How many texts have you sent today? There is no need to go on. The world has reinvented itself in the past 160 years. Would you like to have surgery using 1860s procedures and medicines? Memorials remind us of the past and they remind us how much the world has changed. However, memorials also remind us of what is important.

One of my cherished possessions is an old family photograph. It is faded but I can still make out the images. I pick it up occasionally and look at it. My Aunt Phyllis told me it is a photograph of an Adams family reunion about the year 1900. Everyone is sitting in front of a farmhouse. All the men have long beards; all the women are wearing long dresses. The oldest are sitting on chairs in the middle. The youngest are sitting on the ground. The youngest boy sitting in front of the oldest man is my grandfather, Roger Adams. He was the only one in that picture I ever met. Everyone in that picture has been gone for years. However, I look at that old, faded photograph for one reason. They are family. The blood that flowed in their veins is still flowing through my veins.

I like to think the core values of the generation in that picture are my core values. Let me speak the truth – not a single person in that old photograph is extremely handsome or rich, not a single Adams ever invented something that changed the world or wrote a book that made a single individual think. I came from a long line of hard-working farmers. However, that does not mean being an Adams is not important. Being an Adams means certain things. First, it means you are a good person. In other words, your word means something. Second, it means you do your best. Third, it means you are honest. Fourth, it means you are loyal. Loyal to your spouse, children, friends, and country. Fifth and finally, it means you are a Christian. Adamses have always valued the church. We understand Jesus is our only hope of salvation. We always have and I pray we always will. That is what is important to us. What is important to you? Memorials remind us of the past and memorials remind us of what is important.

As I write this blog, the United States is preparing for Memorial Day. It is more than just the official beginning of summer, it is a time to remember. Americans have been celebrating Memorial Day for a long time. The man credited with the establishment of Memorial Day is John Logan (1826-1886). He was the National Commander of the Grand Army of the Union in the 1860s. It was Logan who declared May 30, 1868, a “Memorial Day” to remember those who had lost their lives during the Civil War. He had people gather at Arlington National Cemetery to put flowers on the graves of both the Union and Confederate soldiers. It was not an original idea. Communities who had lost men in the Civil War had been decorating the graves of their lost soldiers for several years. New York became the first state to make Memorial Day a holiday in 1873. By 1890 all northern states observed Memorial Day. However, southern states had separate Memorial Days until the close of the First World War. Since 1971, Memorial Day has been observed on the last Monday of May, ensuring a three-day holiday weekend.

If you want to keep the spirit of the holiday then don’t celebrate Memorial Day, observe it. It is not a time to party! It is a time to remember. It is a time to remember the past. It is a time to remember what is important. It is a time to remember those who died in service to our country. The forty-fourth President of the United States Barack Obama (born 1961) once said, “Our nation owes a debt to its fallen heroes that we can never repay.”

Why Are Memorials Important?

We find ourselves this evening in the twenty-sixth chapter of Matthew. Those must have been anxious days. The disciples didn’t know exactly what, but they knew something big was about to happen. The time had come for the annual Passover meal. The scriptures say it clearly. Jesus did not spend that evening with his family, as many did. Jesus spend that evening with his disciples. They knew the ritual, yet they were in for a surprise. This is the truth. The disciples were about to learn something new and the disciples were about to experience something new. Let us look at both.

In these sacred verses, the disciples learn there was a traitor in their very midst. Jesus tells the disciples one of their own was a traitor. It could have been any of them. Each one had an opportunity, but the traitor ended up being Judas Iscariot. It must have been hard for them to accept. He may have been the most trusted disciple. Elsewhere in scripture, we are told he was group’s treasurer. How severely has history judged Judas Iscariot? Many believe, he is the greatest traitor in the history of the world. You know the story. He so regretted betraying Jesus for thirty pieces of silver, he took his own life. That must have hard for the other eleven to accept. At that Passover meal, the disciples learned someone new. Judas Iscariot was a traitor. Yet, there is more.

In these sacred verses, the disciples experience something new. It started off as the same old thing, but it ended up being something new. The scriptures call it the Passover meal. We call it the Seder. The meal itself became a teaching tool. Everything they ate symbolized something from their national’s exodus from Egypt. Like all rituals, there is comfort in the familiarity. That comfort is broken when Jesus changed the ritual. Before the meal is complete, a new ritual is born. Jesus passes the bread and calls it his body. Jesus passes the wine and calls it his blood. Our tradition embraced this new ritual to the point it was called a sacrament, a means of grace. Sad to say, what was meant to unite believers has often divided believers. This evening, I want you to remember one thing about communion. Distilled down to its basic form. It is nothing more than a memorial. Jesus said it himself, “Do this in remembrance of me.” Don’t dismiss memorials. Appreciate what memorials are designed to do. This is the question you must answer. Why are memorials important? There are two reasons.

The Past

First, memorials are important because they remind us of the past. In downtown Lexington, Kentucky is a memorial to Brig. General John Hunt Morgan. He was not really from Kentucky, but he was from Tennessee. In became famous during the Civil War when his Confederate cavalry unit covered 1,000 miles. Desperate to take the Civil War into the north, “Morgan’s Raiders” started in Tennessee, swept north into Kentucky, crossed the Ohio River and entered Indiana. Then, they made their way east into Ohio. They were finally stopped on July 26, 1863 in West Point, Ohio. Have you ever been to West Point, Ohio? It is just south of Lisbon so one day I decided to find the spot. It was hard to find but I found it. I stood at the memorial and looked at the view. Not must has changed in West Point since 1863. There must have been nothing there when Morgan was stopped because there is nothing there now. It was just the same, but the world, itself, he has changed. How much has our world changed since 1863? How much has our world changed in 157 years? How much has medicine changed? How much has transportation changed? How much has communication changed? How much has America changed since 1863? How much has America remained the same since 1683? Let me ask you a harder question, “How much has our world changed in the past 2,000 years?” Every several years we do a “Living Last Supper.” It is fun to see the men portray the disciples. With bad wigs, beards and robes, they recite their lines. The goal is to make it like the great painting, The Last Supper. It is a great experience for a church, but it is more important to remember the past. Memorials make us remember the past. Communion forces us to remember that night. It was just Jesus and the disciples. First, memorials make us remember the past.

The Important

Second, memorials remind us of what is important. One of my favorite family pictures sits on my dresser. The picture is an old photograph. It is faded but I can still make out the images. I pick it up every day and look at it. My Aunt Phyllis tells me it is a photograph of an Adams family reunion. The year must be about 1900. The picture is not unique. You may have one of your own family. Everyone is sitting in front of a farmhouse. All the men have beards; all the women are wearing long dresses. The oldest are sitting on chairs in the middle. The youngest are sitting on the ground. There is a young boy sitting in front of the oldest man. That young boy is my grandfather, Roger Adams. He was the only one in that picture I ever met. Everyone in that picture is gone today. However, I look at that old faded photograph every day because they are family. The blood that was flowing in their veins is still flowing through my veins. Those strangers are family!

I like to think the core values of the generations that are represent are my core values. Not a single person in that old photograph is extremely handsome or rich. Not a single Adams ever invented something that changed the world or wrote a book that made a single individual think. They are just a collection of hard-working farmers from northeastern Ohio. However, being an Adams means certain things. First, it means you are a good person. In other words, your word means something. Second, it means you are honest Third, it means you are loyal. Loyal to your spouse, children, friends and country. Forth, it means you are a Christian. Adams have always been strong churchmen and believers. We understand Jesus is our only hope of salvation. We always have and I pray we always will. That is what is important to us. What is important to you?

Memorials remind us of what is important. Communion, a memorial, forces us to remember Jesus. It is impossible to partake of his body and blood and not think of him. Think about this next line. When we eat the bread and drink the juice Jesus becomes part of us. Communion forces us to remember the most important thing in life, Jesus! Yet, there is one more thing communion does. It separates communion from all other memorials.

I read recently; 25 million people visit the National Mall in Washington DC annually. I have been there several times. It is a special place. I am humbled every time I go to Arlington National Cemetery and look at all the memorials, including the Tomb of the Unknown Solder. I love visiting the Lincoln Memorial. There is a sadness about the Vietnam War Memorial. I am unsettled when I walk thru the Korean War Memorial. I was moved the only time I walked to the Jefferson Memorial. I have visited Franklin D. Roosevelt Memorial and the Martin Luther King Memorial. Someday, I want to go to the top of the Washington Memorial. I have seen the World War II Memorial. Can I be honest with you? They are all great, but none can hold a candle to the greatest memorial, the body and blood of Christ, communion. It doesn’t just remind us of the past. It doesn’t just remind us of what is important. It reminds us of eternity. Pope John Paul II (1920-2005) wasn’t wrong. He once said, “The Eucharist is the source and summit of the Christian life.” May God bless us as we make this spiritual pilgrimage together.