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About Memorials

We find ourselves in the fourth chapter of Joshua, verses one through nine. After forty years in the wilderness, the people have just crossed the Jordan River and entered the Promised Land. The first thing they did was build a memorial. God instructs Joshua to take twelve stones, one representing each tribe, from the middle of the Jordan (verse 2). God stops the water from flowing to make their task easier (verse 7). The stones are taken to dry ground and piled up. That pile of stones act as a memorial to future generations (verses 6-7). There was nothing unique about that memorial. It is just a pile of rocks, but it served a purpose. It did what all memorials do. Memorials do two things. They remind us of the past, and they remind us of what is important. Consider those two things.

Memorials help us remember the past. As future generations looked at that pile of rocks, they didn’t just remember the day their ancestors crossed the Jordan, they remembered everything their ancestors endured. They remembered the patriarchs: Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, and Joseph. They remembered how Joseph saved the people from famine and led them into Egypt. They remembered how their ancestors were enslaved by the Egyptians. They remembered Moses, their liberator. They remembered the day their ancestors left Egypt and how God parted the sea for them. They remembered the day Moses came down from Mount Sinai with the Ten Commandants and their years in the wilderness. They remembered Joshua and the generation that seized their land. Memorials are designed to help us remember the past and help us see how much life has changed. It is still true today.

Off the Marblehead Peninsula in northwest Ohio is Johnson Island. It is a great place for camping and fishing. In the 1860s, it was a great place to build a prisoner of war camp during the Civil War. I have been there many times. I have read the historical marker and examined the memorial countless times. The story is interesting. When the Civil War began, many believed it would end in a matter of days. They were wrong, the war lasted for years. A problem soon developed for the Union – what was the Union to do with Confederate prisoners of war? They wanted to relocate them to an isolated spot, so they chose Johnson Island. The POW camp was hastily established. History tells us life in that camp was hard. Death was common. The only thing that remains today is a small cemetery. I have read the names on those headstones’ countless times. The home states are mentioned. Most came from the deep South. Sadly, they never returned home. However, the thing that captures my imagination about Johnson Island is the location. If you take that short walk from the cemetery to the shores of Lake Erie, you can see all the rides of Cedar Point. If you turn one way you see the graves. If you turn around, you can see the amusement park. The contrast is shocking! That location reminds us that our world has changed over the past 160 years.

How much has our world changed in the last 160 years? When the Civil War was fought America was an agricultural nation. My family hasn’t owned a farm in four generations. When the Civil War was being fought illiteracy was high. I do not know a single person who cannot read and write. When the Civil War was being fought, horses were the main mode of transportation. I cannot even ride a horse. During the Civil War communication was dominated by handwritten letters. Do you know of anyone who doesn’t have a cell phone? How many texts have you sent today? There is no need to go on. The world has reinvented itself in the past 160 years. Would you like to have surgery using 1860s procedures and medicines? Memorials remind us of the past and they remind us how much the world has changed. However, memorials also remind us of what is important.

One of my cherished possessions is an old family photograph. It is faded but I can still make out the images. I pick it up occasionally and look at it. My Aunt Phyllis told me it is a photograph of an Adams family reunion about the year 1900. Everyone is sitting in front of a farmhouse. All the men have long beards; all the women are wearing long dresses. The oldest are sitting on chairs in the middle. The youngest are sitting on the ground. The youngest boy sitting in front of the oldest man is my grandfather, Roger Adams. He was the only one in that picture I ever met. Everyone in that picture has been gone for years. However, I look at that old, faded photograph for one reason. They are family. The blood that flowed in their veins is still flowing through my veins.

I like to think the core values of the generation in that picture are my core values. Let me speak the truth – not a single person in that old photograph is extremely handsome or rich, not a single Adams ever invented something that changed the world or wrote a book that made a single individual think. I came from a long line of hard-working farmers. However, that does not mean being an Adams is not important. Being an Adams means certain things. First, it means you are a good person. In other words, your word means something. Second, it means you do your best. Third, it means you are honest. Fourth, it means you are loyal. Loyal to your spouse, children, friends, and country. Fifth and finally, it means you are a Christian. Adamses have always valued the church. We understand Jesus is our only hope of salvation. We always have and I pray we always will. That is what is important to us. What is important to you? Memorials remind us of the past and memorials remind us of what is important.

As I write this blog, the United States is preparing for Memorial Day. It is more than just the official beginning of summer, it is a time to remember. Americans have been celebrating Memorial Day for a long time. The man credited with the establishment of Memorial Day is John Logan (1826-1886). He was the National Commander of the Grand Army of the Union in the 1860s. It was Logan who declared May 30, 1868, a “Memorial Day” to remember those who had lost their lives during the Civil War. He had people gather at Arlington National Cemetery to put flowers on the graves of both the Union and Confederate soldiers. It was not an original idea. Communities who had lost men in the Civil War had been decorating the graves of their lost soldiers for several years. New York became the first state to make Memorial Day a holiday in 1873. By 1890 all northern states observed Memorial Day. However, southern states had separate Memorial Days until the close of the First World War. Since 1971, Memorial Day has been observed on the last Monday of May, ensuring a three-day holiday weekend.

If you want to keep the spirit of the holiday then don’t celebrate Memorial Day, observe it. It is not a time to party! It is a time to remember. It is a time to remember the past. It is a time to remember what is important. It is a time to remember those who died in service to our country. The forty-fourth President of the United States Barack Obama (born 1961) once said, “Our nation owes a debt to its fallen heroes that we can never repay.”

Remembering Dennis P. Buckley

They tell me 11,000 feet high in the Colorado Rocky Mountains there is a secret monument honoring war veterans. It is called “Soldierstone.” It sets high in the majestic peaks and is made of polished granite. It was the brainchild of Lieutenant Colonel Stuart Allen Beckley, who served in Vietnam for ten years. It was constructed in 1985, the same year Beckley died of cancer. He was in the Special Forces, a Green Beret. His unit would parachute behind enemy lines and train indigenous people to defeat their enemies, saving American lives. That monument stands in memory of those fallen indigenous soldiers. The monument is well hidden for a simple reason. Our government denied their existence for decades. When they died, they were soon forgotten. Beckley saw this as wrong. No one should ever be forgotten. He was right. Everyone who dies deserves to be remembered. That leads us to this morning’s scripture lesson.

We are in the fourth chapter of Joshua. After forty years in the wilderness, the people have just crossed the Jordan and entered the Promised Land. Moses is dead and the people are being led by their new warrior leader, Joshua. It must have been a great day. It was a day they had dreamed of for decades. They could have celebrated in countless ways, but do you remember what they did? No, they did not have a party. There were no fireworks. There were no long-winded addresses made by boring politicians. Instead, they built a memorial. God told Joshua to instruct the people to take twelve stones, one representing each tribe, from the middle of the Jordan (verse 2). The tribes do so, and God stops the water from flowing to make their task easier (verse 7). It is easy to stop a river after you have divided a sea. The stones are taken to dry ground and piled up. That pile of stones was to act as a memorial for future generations (verses 6-7). There was nothing unique about that memorial. It is just a pile of rocks, but it served the purpose. That memorial did three important things all memorials are designed to do.

First, memorials force us to look to the past! As future generations looked at that pile of rocks, they remembered the past. I do not just mean the day they crossed the Jordan. That day was just one page in the long history of the Hebrew people. They remembered everything that happened to their people to that point. How well do you remember your Old Testament? They remembered the four patriarchs. They remembered Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, and Joseph. They remembered how Joseph saved the people from the famine and led them into Egypt. They remembered how their favored status was evoked and slavery became a reality. They remembered how hard their lives were as slaves and their prayers for a liberator. They remembered the day they left Egypt and the parting of the sea. They remembered the day Moses came down from Sinai with the Ten Commandants and their wilderness experience. They remembered Joshua and the generation that seized their land. Memorials force us to look to the past!

Second, memorials force us to discover what is important! Joshua’s stone memorial did more than just remind them of historical events. It reminded them of the general theme of their race. It reminded them that God had always been with them and God always will. They had a special relationship with God. After all, they are God’s Chosen People. That was important to them. What is important to you? Memorials force us to discover what is important!

Third, memorials force us to consider the future! When Joshua looked at that memorial made from twelve rocks, he had to think about the future. He was challenged by the events of the past and his people’s special relationship with God. They were not just going to be like every other nation. They were going to be different. They were going to be better. They had a unique opportunity to be holy. When you look to the future what are your aspirations. Memorials force us to look to the future! Let me state the obvious.

Memorials are important! That is why our world is filled with all different kinds of memorials. I have never been to a country that did not have memorials. Consider this partial list me me. The Great Pyramid of Giza in Egypt, Lenin’s Tomb is Russia, the Taj Mahal in India, and the Colosseum in Italy, the Eiffel Tower in France and the Great Wall in China, Christ the Redeemer in Brazil, are all memorials. Today, there are countless on-line memorials.

Memorials are important to Americans too. Did you know the National Park Service manages 30 national memorials? This is part of that list. There is Arlington House or The Robert E. Lee Memorial, Flight 93 Memorial, The Franklin Delano Roosevelt Memorial, The General Grant Memorial, The Korean War Veterans Memorial, The Vietnam War Memorial, The Lincoln Memorial, The Martin Luther King Memorial, The Jefferson Memorial, The Pearl Harbor Memorial, and Mount Rushmore. There are also memorials to the First and Second World Wars, as well as the Wright Brothers. Perry’s Victory and International Peace Memorial is the only national memorial in the state of Ohio. There cannot be too many memories because there is so much to remember. It is sad when something important or someone is forgotten. I know that is true because I have experienced that in my own life. This is the story.

It all began with a simple phone call in April of 2016. The voice on the other end of the line was a familiar one. It was a local funeral director asking if I was available to do a service on a certain date at a certain time. I glanced at the calendar on my phone and said, “Yes.” I was warned the deceased did not die recently. He died on June 30, 1951. His name was Dennis P. Buckley. He was only 23 years old. He lived in the Youngstown area as a youth and joined the Navy. When his hitch was up with the Navy he reenlisted in the Army. He was order to Korea to fight the spread of communism. He was sent to a dangerous region and was taken as a prisoner of war. Returning soldiers said he died as a POW in the Susan Camp. His remains had been returned now, because our government had signed a treaty with the North Korean government. His remains were only one of several. He was identified by DNA testing and dental records. I was humbled to be asked and play a small part in the ceremony.

When the day came, I went to the funeral home. There was no shortage of military. Every other person was in uniform. A guard was constantly posted beside his remains, which fit in a hat size box. An American flag and the blouse of an Army uniform were framed. I was introduced to Buckley’s only living relative, a niece, and I was introduced to the officer in charge. It was a strange introduction. There is always a tension between professional military and clergy. The two do not see the world in the same way. When the service began there was a stiffness in the air. I had read those words a million times, but this time it was different. The words seem to hit the floor in front of the lectern. There was no emotion, but a surplus of respect. When the remains were placed in the hearse by the military, I sat in the lead car next to the funeral director. We were heading to the Ohio Western Reserve National Cemetery in Rittman. Arlington National Cemetery is filling up, so regional national cemeteries have been established. The closest one to us is in Rittman. If you have never been to a national cemetery, go. They are impressive. We did not travel alone. There was a military escort, along with random motorcycles. Everyone saw us coming and everyone seemed to know the story. Cars pulled to the side so not to impede our progress. Trucks pulled into the rest area and the drivers saluted as Buckley passed. When we arrived at the cemetery more military was waiting for us. There was no waiting. They escorted us to the designated spot, and everyone exited the cars. Everyone stood. The Honor Guards represented every branch of the military, Army, Navy, Air Force, Marines and Coast Guard. Buckley’s remains were handled respectfully and I walked behind the cart. I was told where to stand and when to speak. I said the committal clearly, stood to the side and watched the military say their parting words. Their words were genuine. Once the flag was folded, it was presented to Buckley’s niece. Finally, taps were played. She was moved to tears. Then, as fast as it began, it was over.

As I waited to leave, the local news team appeared. The same reporters I had seen on my television. They asked me to say a few words. I said, I was humbled. They asked, the funeral director to say a few words. He said he was honored. They asked Dennis Buckley’s niece to say a few words. She was out of her comfort zone. However, I think about her words every Memorial Day. She looked at the camera and thanked everyone for their kindness. They asked her about what she remembered about Dennis. She said, “To be honest, I think, I only met him once. I had forgotten about him.” The reporter tried not to look disappointed, but there was nothing else to say. How do you forget someone who gave so much?

How many people have you forgotten who have died serving our country? No one should be forgotten. How are you going to remember those who died in service to our country? George S. Patton (1885-1945) was an American general during the Second World War. He commanded the Seventh Army. He once said, “It is foolish and wrong to mourn the men who died. Rather we should thank God such men lived.” May they never be forgotten.